A new year, a new me?

     Today is January 1, 2012. I always feel required to reflect on myself and the previous year. If I could sum up last year in words I would call it a "learning experience". I learned that some people are very focused on making a dollar. Realtors are not really friends. I learned that I am young but if I set my mind to things I can accomplish them. I learned how to set up bills and make it on my own. I learned to ask for help when I need help. I have learned to stop talking so much and actually listen. I have learned that it's ok to not follow a strict schedule and to roll with the punches.

     I don't really have any resolutions for 2012, however; I have thought of different goals I would like to accomplish. I guess every woman on the planet wants to lose weight. Truth be told I wouldn't mind dropping 10 pounds for an upcoming wedding. I want to take time to actually listen and not be quick to make judgements. I don't want to argue with the people I love the most. Instead, I want to enjoy our time together. I want to enjoy my house and turn it into a cozy home.

     When Stephen and I first started dating, we had fun no matter what. We could ride around and talk for hours, go out to eat, spend time with friends, etc. We still do that now. In fact, I love when we ride around talking. However, I have let the comments of others affect the person I am. I have listened to others make marriage comments, house comments, life comments. I have let those comments negatively effect the person that I am. This year, I want to focus more on keeping a light and fun relationship. I will take what others say with a grain of salt. Afterall, everyone is entitled to an opinion. I get to choose what I want to do with that opinion. I do know that I never want to ask couples "when do they plan on getting married" and "when are you gonna start having babies". Not my business, not my place to ask.

    So here is to 2012. Here is to praying more, trusting in the Lord and focusing on being the best person I can be. Here is to health, happiness and lots of love. :)